Benefits of being a Regular

[BBlurker2018]

If you are a regular of one of the spa ladies then you will know of the benefits of seeing your chosen lady weekly, bi-weekly or monthly. The service levels tend to go up and the familiarity can add to the session.
With covid and the shut downs there are other possible benefits and that is if she didn't work at an agency and is arranging meetings you should have a better chance than non regulars. However if you are a regular and your lady is seeing clients and you are not one of them what is she telling you? Is she telling you that she does not value your relationship, she only wants to see your sorry ass at the spa, You are a fucking horrible fuck, your cock is too small, you are too fucking cheap, you are one ugly bastard, you don't know how to have a good time. So what if your not in the group and you have seen her every week for a year, always tipped her and bought her flowers and presents on special ocassions, how do you feel. She has left you with blue balls.
What should you do?
You could say fuck it and not see her anymore, you could see her less and get another to see regularly and therefore increasing your chances for next time, or whimper back to her and act like nothing happened.
Just a thought what would you do?

FYI
I don't have a regular and after reading what puredelight said I thought I would ask what people were thinking.

 

[vivid]

Sounds like a PureDelight issue too

 

[OG_funguy]

Hmm...that's a tough one. If you really like her services, I would probably continue to see her anyways. It would certainly suck but you may not have all the facts. It could be that she's extremely close to a only a few customers and it's only those customers that she's choosing to see. The other 99% she's not seeing...in that case, there's no reason to get too upset.

On the other hand, it could also be all those other things you mentioned too...i.e. she doesn't care too much about your patronage, you could be cheap, you might not physically be to her liking, etc. etc.

Personally, I would just start seeing her less and find another MPA that valued me more...but no need to make a big fuss about it because, like I said, it could be for a number of different reasons.

 

[WhatsUpToday]

Hmm...that's a tough one. If you really like her services, I would probably continue to see her anyways. It would certainly suck but you may not have all the facts. It could be that she's extremely close to a only a few customers and it's only those customers that she's choosing to see. The other 99% she's not seeing...in that case, there's no reason to get too upset.

On the other hand, it could also be all those other things you mentioned too...i.e. she doesn't care too much about your patronage, you could be cheap, you might not physically be to her liking, etc. etc.

Personally, I would just start seeing her less and find another MPA that valued me more...but no need to make a big fuss about it because, like I said, it could be for a number of different reasons.

Very diplomatic - you must watch a lot of Dr Phil!

 

[pman]

It is often a matter of circumstances. My fav can do outcalls at clients place, but I cant host, so it's not like her fault...

 

[felixami]

Comfort level makes it more fun and enjoyable.

 

[playfulfun]

No ones answered the poll

 

[xtc27]

No ones answered the poll

...my reg is still working @ her spa & it’s open... which option I pick?

 

[felixami]

...my reg is still working @ her spa & it’s open... which option I pick?

None of the above...

 

[xtc27]

If you are a regular of one of the spa ladies then you will know of the benefits of seeing your chosen lady weekly, bi-weekly or monthly. The service levels tend to go up and the familiarity can add to the session.
With covid and the shut downs there are other possible benefits and that is if she didn't work at an agency and is arranging meetings you should have a better chance than non regulars. However if you are a regular and your lady is seeing clients and you are not one of them what is she telling you? Is she telling you that she does not value your relationship, she only wants to see your sorry ass at the spa, You are a fucking horrible fuck, your cock is too small, you are too fucking cheap, you are one ugly bastard, you don't know how to have a good time. So what if your not in the group and you have seen her every week for a year, always tipped her and bought her flowers and presents on special ocassions, how do you feel. She has left you with blue balls.
What should you do?
You could say fuck it and not see her anymore, you could see her less and get another to see regularly and therefore increasing your chances for next time, or whimper back to her and act like nothing happened.
Just a thought what would you do?

FYI
I don't have a regular and after reading what puredelight said I thought I would ask what people were thinking.

...other dudes said this... nvr b mean or vengeful in words... u like her, situation could improve...

Unless yr reg = spa mgr, she has rivals... other girl same spa, popular, not her buddy... start seeing her rival!

1. Most amazing session... her rival gonna try 2 steal u!
2. Make sure u mention those things yer reg doesn’t do, so she can offer them 2u
3. If yr reg asks, tell her u started seeing other girl due2 X... take yr pick, whatever she’s not doing that u want her 2

So, 1st, u get amazing sex @ least once from rival mpa... 1st time max mileage! U may think, geez, time 2 switch! Or... yr fave gonna work 2 win u back...

I did this... it works!

...ofc, if it’s yr game that’s off (cheapness, hygiene), u gotta fix that... don’t worry 2much re looks, most girls gonna service even fat ugly dudes... yeah, if yer her type, can work gd, but not worth worrying about...

 

[OG_funguy]

hey dude.. you didn't specify if she's asian or not? - my experience with asian chicks... grow your mustache until it covers both lips and don't shave... and make sure she knows you are worthy... $$$$. your playbook is your playbook.. but dude.. there are fucking great benes to be had! white dress shirt, dress blue jeans, Florsheim's and sport Jacket are a few weapons that work for me.. ha and I make dam sure sure that she knows I can be very humble! you don't want her thinking you dominate everything.. she has to win too! and make sure her powers are her powers
and embrace them.. the very best ones command the very best from you and you need to stand out from the rest of us..
this is life... my civie par time asian fwb gfriend doesn't stay fwb with me for no reason.
if you want to be king, she has to be queen..
we want the hottest chicks, they want the hottest guys.. period!

all the best!

But the self-professed King of Asians (Ursus) says you have to be dominant and put them in their place...

Not sure about the mustache thing though. Almost all the ones I know prefer a clean cut face...but hey, whatever works for you.

 

[Deleted member 63288]

If your regular isn't giving you BBFS on the third visit, you're doing it wrong.

 

[xtc27]

But the self-professed King of Asians (Ursus) says you have to be dominant and put them in their place...

Not sure about the mustache thing though. Almost all the ones I know prefer a clean cut face...but hey, whatever works for you.

...some faces work better w moustache ... but 4 sure, optional...

...moustache makes me look like a cop... so depends if that’s gd 4me or not... but getting DFK easier w/o ‘stash...

 

[Sybarite]

However if you are a regular and your lady is seeing clients and you are not one of them what is she telling you? Is she telling you that she does not value your relationship, she only wants to see your sorry ass at the spa, You are a fucking horrible fuck, your cock is too small, you are too fucking cheap, you are one ugly bastard, you don't know how to have a good time.

She might not be "telling" you anything at all. Maybe he asked for her number and you didn't. Everything else is just one's own personal fears and insecurities. How is she saying any of those things simply by not contacting you to see her privately?

Or say, for example, maybe you weren't tipping as much as others and she just prefers guys who give her way too much money. Does that make her evil? Does that mean your cock is too small, you're ugly and can't fuck?

I think guys are letting their minds run wild with injuries to their wounded pride they're inventing in their own heads and projecting them onto MPAs they are obsessed with. If you're bringing flowers and special gifts maybe she thinks you are taking this whole thing way too seriously and it's freaking her out...

We get to choose whoever we want to see. Stop crucifying girls for making their own personal decisions.

 

[luvdafurburger]

...some faces work better w moustache ...

Yup....absolutely true-

 

[felixami]

...other dudes said this... nvr b mean or vengeful in words... u like her, situation could improve...

Unless yr reg = spa mgr, she has rivals... other girl same spa, popular, not her buddy... start seeing her rival!

1. Most amazing session... her rival gonna try 2 steal u!
2. Make sure u mention those things yer reg doesn’t do, so she can offer them 2u
3. If yr reg asks, tell her u started seeing other girl due2 X... take yr pick, whatever she’s not doing that u want her 2

So, 1st, u get amazing sex @ least once from rival mpa... 1st time max mileage! U may think, geez, time 2 switch! Or... yr fave gonna work 2 win u back...

I did this... it works!

...ofc, if it’s yr game that’s off (cheapness, hygiene), u gotta fix that... don’t worry 2much re looks, most girls gonna service even fat ugly dudes... yeah, if yer her type, can work gd, but not worth worrying about...

Hot Pink List has two sisters - Samantha and Sienna - it even works with siblings! Sibling rivalry! Competition.

 

[playfulfun]

Hot Pink List has two sisters - Samantha and Sienna - it even works with siblings! Sibling rivalry! Competition.

Does it also work with mother daughter?
It does in porn.

 

[dirtyoldman]

If you are a regular of one of the spa ladies then you will know of the benefits of seeing your chosen lady weekly, bi-weekly or monthly. The service levels tend to go up and the familiarity can add to the session.
With covid and the shut downs there are other possible benefits and that is if she didn't work at an agency and is arranging meetings you should have a better chance than non regulars. However if you are a regular and your lady is seeing clients and you are not one of them what is she telling you? Is she telling you that she does not value your relationship, she only wants to see your sorry ass at the spa, You are a fucking horrible fuck, your cock is too small, you are too fucking cheap, you are one ugly bastard, you don't know how to have a good time. So what if your not in the group and you have seen her every week for a year, always tipped her and bought her flowers and presents on special ocassions, how do you feel. She has left you with blue balls.
What should you do?
You could say fuck it and not see her anymore, you could see her less and get another to see regularly and therefore increasing your chances for next time, or whimper back to her and act like nothing happened.
Just a thought what would you do?

FYI
I don't have a regular and after reading what puredelight said I thought I would ask what people were thinking.

Give more money even you ugly and you have a hygiene is you she love you.

 

[xtc27]

I've also been told I look like a cop! maybe cuz I eat donuts from tims or starbucks bluieberry muffins heated! ohhh those muffins on her!!.. ha haha
but your right, some faces handle mustaches better than others!!

Right now, trying 2get those stealth mode spas 2open up 4me... cop look= Not gd!

 

[snoopdoggie]

Yup....absolutely true-





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