BJ from TG

[RedNinja]

I was in Phuket last month & went out with about 5 TG's. I picked them all up at Tiger Bar / Disco. To my surprise, when i took them to my room, none of them offered a BJ. they all laid down ready for me to get into action. I am not the very pushy kind, so i did not really force them. But would the Go-Go girls be any different or should i have been different in my approach with the girls & talk to them ahead of time. I am going there again in the next couple of months & any advise is helpful

 

[puppetgirl121]

Some TG's can be a little more reserved than you would think given thier occupation.. Of course another way to look at it is if they can have an easy nights work instead of a hard nights one many will take it...

Make sure you pick an 'up for it' slutty type if you want slutty.. Steer conversation towards sex and see how they react or respond.. You dont have to be too puchy but you can also expect fair service if your paying (tho FL's in the disco's are often the least willing and percieve themselves to be less out and out 'working'..)..

Really its down to how you pick them... how you interact and vet them and how insistant on you being the focus of attention (that can have negative effects if you are trying to 'woo' one and keep her)...

 

[picaroonschest]

John 1000d your just apure romantic at heart any tips you can give me ?

 

[Timinator .]

Sounds like you hit "Starfish Central" , a bit of sweet talking before you got to your room might have helped. Remember , the BGs are not mind-readers , some will, some won't. :love2:

 

[I love books]

Maybe look for a hungry one who would like something warm in her stomach?

 

[thecoolnessest]

I have noticed that what John says is true. I don't particularly enjoy BJs, unless the girl is really a top-notch expert. So if they don't want to, then it is fine with me, since intercourse is what I like best.

However, I have found that the ones who really want to make a good impression, and who are hoping for a 2nd "date", will more often than not, go right at it, without any request or encouragement on my part. In that sense I like it because it tells me that they are really digging me!

In your case, John, given the peculiar shyness of TGs(as LL says, given their occupation), then if you want a BJ, your odds are better if you take one instead of 5, since they may be more shy about oral sex in front of the other girls. Try taking a girl who seems like she is really hot for you , even if she is not the best-looking one. She will probably give you the best BJ.

LivinLOS, I thought your comment was odd, because in the US, all hookers try to get a guy off quick with a BJ, since this is quick, easy, and out-the-door, and they get paid an hour's wages for 10 or 15 minutes work. They usually don't really like f*cking, because it is more invasive, more passionate, more personal, more sweaty, they need to shower afterwards, and it takes up a lot more of their time. They really don't like a guy getting that close to them, face to face. He might try to kiss them, even!! A BJ is clinical, by comparison. It is between them, and your usually cooperative little pecker. As far as they are concerned, you don't even enter the equation, except to fork over the cash!

So, were you saying that screwing is a more easy night's work, or did i take your meaning backwards? Screwing is a lot more work for them IMHO.

JayBee

 

[scott b]

Yes John, Jaybee has summed it all up perfectley.
You could also just ask the girl before pay the bar fine if she do the job.

happy hunting Rex

 

[rare pokemon hunter]

But then theres the 'fluid factor'.. I assume most US sex workers insist on a CBJ ?? Whereas here they are more likely to have to loving spoonful..

Also theres not usually a one shot policy here..

 

[Alisha]

ohh and of course it depends on the screwing.. starfish v doing all the work..

 

[Apocalypse Cow]

I've said it before but bar girls are not hookers, no hooker is likely to ask you to take her dancing before you go back to the hotel. You can argue semantics all you like (ie sex for money), but the behaviour of BGs is quite different to hookers and if you think of them like that you will be continually dissapointed.

 

[<<TANZ>>]

Well put.
You have it in a nutshell. :thumbsup:

 

[David M]

Actually, if you read my post again, NOWHERE in the post do I ever refer to BGs as hookers!!! You misread or misunderstood.

I refer to US hookers as hookers, because that is what they are. There is no equivalent to a BG in the US, as you probably know. But whether you are talking about a BG or a hooker, a BJ is a BJ. It is still the same act. So it is the relative ease or difficulty or A BJ versus full-on body-to-body, penile penetration intercourse, which I was comparing. In no way was I ever comparing BGs to American hookers.

That comparison has been made on other posts, and I have chipped in my tow cents worth, which is to say that there is all the difference in the world between BGs and hookers. Personally, I would never equate a BG to a hooker.

JayBee

 

[redunicorn]

If you can get a good one in Japan, they make slurpee sounds as if slurping noodles. It's freakin' awesome! It's more than tactile and visual, it's an auditory delight. TG's don't go that far unfortunately, IME.

 

[bill g]

I would have thought it was just better to come out and ask them if you want a bj when you go back to the hotel room. The old dutch courage you leave with after a trip to the bars should take care of any shyness or inhibitions you may have.

Baring in mind that most tg's are banging away most night's, surely you cant expect them to be ars*d with foreplay with all their clients. If you fancy a bj, i reckon its upto you to provide her with the motivation.

 

[discodaug]

I do not agree, sorry! Bg ARE hookers, only a different way then in the West. As they come to your room, are payed for se*, what are they then....

It is different yes. They play sometimes "girlfriend" and most of them will only have you for the time being! (although I could tell weird stories about the opposite)

Coming back to the bj. If they don't do that don't bother! Some new girls are ery suprised if you want that, but most girls I had will do it with pleasure or not!

I once had a girl our a bar in Kata. I asked her explecitely, if she would do that. Was no problem untill in the room. Just brought her back to the bar.

Doing the deed is nice, but with that cundom you don't feel that much. A nice BJ gives you other feelings, more profound.

Most girls i had were not really experts, my girl at home is much better. But I had 2 girls who were experts and....loved it. One girl, for me my "best fuc* ever, the one when she leaves, you say "now I can die in peace" (although I will try to catch another night with her next time, although she is out of the bar). That girl had a body, you cna't imagine, visious, like I never, ever a TG.

The 2 nd had also a beautiful body, but a terrible face. It was the first bg I took after, the motorbike girl did not show. Oldest bg I ever had, 32, but fantastic screw if you got a bag by the hand

 

[caramelcappuccino]

55555555555555 or a towel.

 

[Donna E]

This is the one I am talking about.

The second is my favourite, the one, who would not need a bag at all.

Beware this is now a sweet innocent girl lOL, not in the bar for quiet some time

 

[Jennifer B]

just ask the girl ,for many of them it's not the faforite thing to do
the ones that don't like it give you a bad one anyhow,it's an art that needs a lot of practice.better luck next time

 

[maliboo_girl]

:thumbsup: :thumbsup:

 

[Pompal 09.]

I just read a post by Eurogirl.....it put the sh.ts up me. All about HIV variant E. Whats a boy to do....Have a tug in a dark room and try not to look guilty when you come out.
I will get to the point.... will BG's give head with a condom or is this not common. I know it sounds a bit extreme but that post put a crimp in my day as I had such high hopes of a dirty time when I arrive.