Cousins girlfriend

[King Arthur]

I was told by a regular at Premier that about half of the girls with boyfriends lie to them about their line of work.

It is more than half. Some of these chicks take female viagra so they can fake enjoy sex with boyfriends. The way I see it guys like us get all the sexual energy these girls have while the boyfriends have to put up with the girls emotions feelings nagging insecurity bitterness you name it. When the girls see us they have to look good and perform well but with the boyfriends and husbands they can bitch the guy out as much as they want. Maybe worth it if you are getting free rent the chick pays for or something like that but most of these girls lie about the job they have so the guy still winds up paying for stuff while she earns interest on her tax free income. If you are going to tell the guy that is why you should tell him because he is probably getting screwed around by this girl while she screws everyone except him. He could get mad tho because it is hard to hear that your gf plays with more dick in a single day than most chicks see in a lifetime.

 

[Homerun001]

He probably met her at the spa and not helping her "car troubles" at Sherway. He's probably reading this.

He has no idea what she does that is 99.9% confirmed..
So.. if your son. Brother . Cuz. Best friend show up at a family gathering and you know the provider due to her having recently provided you a service for the 2nd time you just turn a blind eye and let a potential train wreck happen to non hobby man. It was an awkward situation to say the least a 'wtf' in my head no way.. I guess no one here ever experienced this. Very awkward..

 

[King Arthur]

He has no idea what she does that is 99.9% confirmed..
So.. if your son. Brother . Cuz. Best friend show up at a family gathering and you know the provider due to her having recently provided you a service for the 2nd time you just turn a blind eye and let a potential train wreck happen to non hobby man. It was an awkward situation to say the least a 'wtf' in my head no way.. I guess no one here ever experienced this. Very awkward..

I knew a chick that was a stripper and did some escorting then like five years after she quite the biz she got together with a guy I met a couple times he was a recovering drug addict. They went to church together tried to support each other moving on in life so I didn't have to tell him anything. These born again types admit all types of bad stuff they did so that they can have the big come to Jesus moment but if she did not tell him I would have.

 

[Gulag107]

He probably met her at the spa and not helping her "car troubles" at Sherway. He's probably reading this.

Live and let die...

 

[Hangdai]

You stated you only saw her 2 times? Over what time period?
I don’t know, unless you have a photographic memory, I’ve seen ladies plenty of times and thought I knew them, saw them here or there.
Hell, I still swear the lady across the street was a porn star whom I’ve dreamt of plenty of times.

Some girls just have a familiar look. I think your might be getting worked up over nothing.
If she’s still in the game, your cuz will eventually find out, if she’s not, everyone will hate you for outing her.

 

[Homerun001]

She was my service provider no doubt about it.
I'm not outing her or trying to expose her hell she knows my real name and I know hers now after yesterday's introduction.
I guess everyone is split damn if you do and damn if you don't.. it's hard when a close family member is getting serious with someone who has not been truthful with them and to let a train wreck happen .

 

[Bad]

You will have to confront the elephant in the room between you and her at some point.
Like KW Guy said, in a note or to her alone.
You basically don't want anyone to know you hobby and she doesn't want anyone to know what she does.
Plus to make it even worse that she serviced you!!!! Bad all around if it comes out.
Hopefully, they make it work and all is good in the world (except you can't see her at the spa anymore).

Good Luck.

 

[newtothis82]

She was my service provider no doubt about it.
I'm not outing her or trying to expose her hell she knows my real name and I know hers now after yesterday's introduction.
I guess everyone is split damn if you do and damn if you don't.. it's hard when a close family member is getting serious with someone who has not been truthful with them and to let a train wreck happen .

Dude just leave it alone, she’s not a criminal or an abuser. Let them do their thing, your cousin is happy at some point he may find out the truth, why hurt him now...fuck life is too short

 

[The Donger]

Don t say anything, he may already know. He s a big boy and he can look after himself. No good will come of you telling him, if it is a mistake it is his to make.

 

[Homerun001]

Digesting everyone's feedback in this matter I decided to tackle the elephant in the room head on and made an appt to discuss this matter as 2 adults and as civilians. We talked for an hour at the spa and then went for a coffee and talked some more.. she broke down in tears and was planning on telling him and everytime she was going to she couldn't as she just does not know how to and she knows it will fuck up everything when he finds out.. from the conversation I was convinced that she really likes cuz and wants to meet his kids and more family on Canada day and she intends to. The focus was on the situation at hand .. as for our sessions they never happened and my lips are sealed.. but for the sake of the kids she is going to meet I emphasized don't do it unless you tell him and let things play out don't do that to him and his kids . Let him know if you really have a heart and care .. I have to say that at times you have to feel for our providers when they meet someone outside the biz and end up liking them and having to deal with hiding their work and how to disclose it over time.. I would hate to be in their situation.

 

[Deleted member 67013]

So let me get this straight, you stuck your nose into someone else’s business, and put this poor lady in a position to come clean on something she does not want the world to know?? And now, you could potentially ruin her chance at happiness to lead a normal life with a normal guy. So let me ask you something Homer, do you have a girlfriend? Wife? Or plan to have a girlfriend or wife in the future? And if so, will you come clean on your past or Hobbying ways??? People like you need to mind your own business. This did not involve you, and you could simply have made a choice to let people be happy. This will not end well for you, I’m sure if that

 

[Deleted member 67013]

Another thing, you said you would hate to be in their situation. You put them in that situation. A real man would have left it alone.

 

[King Arthur]

Digesting everyone's feedback in this matter I decided to tackle the elephant in the room head on and made an appt to discuss this matter as 2 adults and as civilians. We talked for an hour at the spa and then went for a coffee and talked some more.. she broke down in tears and was planning on telling him and everytime she was going to she couldn't as she just does not know how to and she knows it will fuck up everything when he finds out.. from the conversation I was convinced that she really likes cuz and wants to meet his kids and more family on Canada day and she intends to. The focus was on the situation at hand .. as for our sessions they never happened and my lips are sealed.. but for the sake of the kids she is going to meet I emphasized don't do it unless you tell him and let things play out don't do that to him and his kids . Let him know if you really have a heart and care .. I have to say that at times you have to feel for our providers when they meet someone outside the biz and end up liking them and having to deal with hiding their work and how to disclose it over time.. I would hate to be in their situation.

She says she really likes him but she is still handling dozens of other dicks every day. Remember that she is a professional actress.

 

[King Arthur]

CherryBolt sounds like a MPA.

 

[King Arthur]

I dont see the comparison between hobbying guys and MPA. Just look at the numbers there is no comparison. I am a hobbyist but I never went more than once a week and sometimes it is only twice a month. Plus I am repeating with the girls I like so I am seeing like 10 or 12 girls a year. An MPA is seeing minimum like 500 guys a year. If she is successful if she works at a busy spa 500 is the minimum number of dicks she is handling annually and it could easily be 1k if she works a lot of shifts. I am glad they do it but hobbyists are virgins compared to MPAs, actually there are porn stars that are virgins compared to MPAs.

 

[newtothis82]

So when your significant other asks you if your fucking around, just tell her “it’s okay at least I’m not an mpa. I only fuck 1-2 other girls a month other than you honey, and btw I spend $200-300 each time.” Both hobbyists and attendants are hiding this business from the rest of the world and if you participate you have no business judging either party. I think he made a mistake by confronting this girl, but that’s his choice.
But the idea that the hobbyist and attendant are different based on volume is absurd.

 

[King Arthur]

So when your significant other asks you if your fucking around, just tell her “it’s okay at least I’m not an mpa. I only fuck 1-2 other girls a month other than you honey, and btw I spend $200-300 each time.” Both hobbyists and attendants are hiding this business from the rest of the world and if you participate you have no business judging either party. I think he made a mistake by confronting this girl, but that’s his choice.
But the idea that the hobbyist and attendant are different based on volume is absurd.

Nah see if I was married I would not be hobbying thats why I am saying this girl is bullshitting Homer because she is saying she really likes his cousin but she is still going through 50+ dicks a week. If she is honest with the guy I can respect that but if she is not being honest if I were the guy I would want to know.

 

[Deleted member 67013]

No King, not an MPA. Just find that to many people like to stick there noses into other people’s affairs. I agree with newtothis and the point he is making. Homer asked for advice and we all gave him our views. I don’t mean to disrespect, it’s just my view. Good luck to you Homer, I hope it works out for you.

 

[King Arthur]

No King, not an MPA. Just find that to many people like to stick there noses into other people’s affairs. I agree with newtothis and the point he is making. Homer asked for advice and we all gave him our views. I don’t mean to disrespect, it’s just my view. Good luck to you Homer, I hope it works out for you.

Most def a MPA but I see nothing controversial because if Homer met his cousins business partner and Homer knew his business partner was pulling the wool over his cousins eyes in the business operations then of course he should tell his cousin. Same thing if he knows his cousins girlfriend is playing with a dozen dudes dicks every day. You dont let friends get cheated. Would be different if the girl was being honest with the guy or it was all in her past but that is not the case. If she wants to have a normal life with a normal guy like you say it is all good but if she is lying to him the guy deserves to know.

 

[topo112]

Usually sps and mpas come clean in the beginning of a relationship, they know is the best thing to do since dealing with a hurt- jealous man can be dangerous. I think cousin already knows and he’s ok with it. Mpas eventually retire and live a normal life. Sometimes they appreciate a man even more when they know the truth and still is able to love them back. Is cousin is rich then he must be careful with any woman she can be after his money.