Cousins girlfriend

[chuckandmyself]

Hey man,

I understand your pain last year in February my cousin got married to this girl a month after I saw her in a strip club. At first I could believe my eyes cuz I was drunk so I went again next weekend and saw her again and called my cousin the next day with all the courage I had and yes he didn't believed me at first and when he confronted his wife she said that I am lying and I did got in trouble and had to apologize to her. And after that I didn't go to any strip clubs for months but then in September I went to another club and there she was so I called him and took him in and he saw with his own eyes. Well long story short they got divorced but I still got in trouble, but my cousin still thanks me to this day.

Long story short:
We got together to watch the afternoon soccer game at my brother's house and 1 of our cousin's showed up with his 3 month girlfriend that he has been talking about with high regards, and I mean his girlfriend being successful in the financial sector and just the perfect woman. So they arrived and my heart stopped right there as I took not 1 but 3 looks at her and holy shit , she is a MPA and serviced me 2 times and she was so calm and cool and I was speechless .
My question is what should i do as in tell my cousin about her and have any of you been in this situation ? I strongly believe he has no clue about what she is really doing.

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[Homerun001]

No King, not an MPA. Just find that to many people like to stick there noses into other people’s affairs. I agree with newtothis and the point he is making. Homer asked for advice and we all gave him our views. I don’t mean to disrespect, it’s just my view. Good luck to you Homer, I hope it works out for you.

Cherry you are right, everyone is entitled to their opinions and views and its ok to agree or disagree on things as we all see things in different ways. Why you wishing me good luck for ? .. for those of us who hobby we do it for our own reasons and I dont think most of us advertise it to family , significant other or close friends and it is not our line of work to make a living but if they do good for them. I am concerned for a close family member as he has no clue and i have known him for 40 plus years and we are a tight knit family so ya it kinda is my business because I give a shit and did what I thought was right and feel ok about it.

 

[papaya]

Long story short:
We got together to watch the afternoon soccer game at my brother's house and 1 of our cousin's showed up with his 3 month girlfriend that he has been talking about with high regards, and I mean his girlfriend being successful in the financial sector and just the perfect woman. So they arrived and my heart stopped right there as I took not 1 but 3 looks at her and holy shit , she is a MPA and serviced me 2 times and she was so calm and cool and I was speechless .
My question is what should i do as in tell my cousin about her and have any of you been in this situation ? I strongly believe he has no clue about what she is really doing.

Tell your cousin. Lying is stupid. Honesty is the best way to go. If your cousin is cool with his gf being a former MPA, then all is fine. No biggie. The thing is, your cousin's gf should have told him. When people are in a relationship they usually talk about their families, past and present jobs, etc. When one is hiding, what a joke. Move on. I dont give a flying fuck if she is an MPA or SP or banker or whatever. Spare me with comments like MPA is a taboo or people will judge her. No one is special. Just tell him. Meanwhile i am with snoopie, how about that review.

 

[Deleted member 67013]

I see your last point King, and it’s well taken. I lead a life of minding my own business. Many times I have intervened in situations similar with cheating partners and it’s always backfired on me. Homer, again hope it all works out. And I absolutely admire your loyalty to your family.

 

[King Arthur]

Homer you say you have known your cousin 40+ years. Is there a big age gap with him and this girl? Cherry is right that getting into peoples business can backfire but at the same time if you knew something important and you said nothing they can hold that against you too. The way I see it is I dont lie for anyone. I mind my business but if I gotta lie then no dice. Like if this girl tells your cousin she works at a office job and I am supposed to lie to protect her story that is a dealbreaker.

 

[Homerun001]

Tell your cousin. Lying is stupid. Honesty is the best way to go. If your cousin is cool with his gf being a former MPA, then all is fine. No biggie. The thing is, your cousin's gf should have told him. When people are in a relationship they usually talk about their families, past and present jobs, etc. When one is hiding, what a joke. Move on. I dont give a flying fuck if she is an MPA or SP or banker or whatever. Spare me with comments like MPA is a taboo or people will judge her. No one is special. Just tell him. Meanwhile i am with snoopie, how about that review.

She is not a former MPA, she is active.. and saw her at the spa for service 8/9 days ago and prior to that a week before.. very awkward when cousin introduced her Sunday as his girlfriend..he has no clue .

 

[TheKWguy]

No point to second guess. homerun has met her and they talked.

He can let it drop (that is what I recommend) or keep an eye out. Thats about it. There is nothing else he can or should do when it comes to adults in a relationship.

You can’t guess or assume anything about what the other party was thinking, will not do, or even what they will say in the future. Just take it at face value.

If I didnt trust my supplier then what? I would go crazy thinking of every single option. Second guess, no trust. Just trust her until otherwise.

 

[Homerun001]

Homer you say you have known your cousin 40+ years. Is there a big age gap with him and this girl? Cherry is right that getting into peoples business can backfire but at the same time if you knew something important and you said nothing they can hold that against you too. The way I see it is I dont lie for anyone. I mind my business but if I gotta lie then no dice. Like if this girl tells your cousin she works at a office job and I am supposed to lie to protect her story that is a dealbreaker.

Hey King.. cousin is approaching 45 and she is the same age but not 100% sure. They are not spring chickens .

 

[ChubbyGuy]

I think she should tell your cousin (OP stay out for now) the truth in the near future (should have done it before family gathering)...There was another member on this forum who found out his gf was an mpa when she told him. He gave her an ultimatum and I think they are still together (she quit).

 

[Homerun001]

No point to second guess. homerun has met her and they talked.

He can let it drop (that is what I recommend) or keep an eye out. Thats about it. There is nothing else he can or should do when it comes to adults in a relationship.

You can’t guess or assume anything about what the other party was thinking, will not do, or even what they will say in the future. Just take it at face value.

If I didnt trust my supplier then what? I would go crazy thinking of every single option. Second guess, no trust. Just trust her until otherwise.

KW.. agree with you...

 

[69isbest]

Let it go just don't tell him ever you did her!! Live and let live. It is really none of your God damned business!!! For all you know I could have done your wife or girlfriend 5 years ago !! Everyone has a past, all that matters is if they are happy together!! Judge not and not be judged! If he thinks he loves her what else matters! Life is too short!! Leave it alone no one wins here !! Just tell her to get tested for STDs and move on!!!

 

[papaya]

She is not a former MPA, she is active.. and saw her at the spa for service 8/9 days ago and prior to that a week before.. very awkward when cousin introduced her Sunday as his girlfriend..he has no clue .

why awkward....just say, "hey cuz, i saw your woman working as a MPA. I wonder how much she's earning. " Regarding others stating it is none of your business, that is lame. She has a job. You cuz has a job. People talk about their occupation everyday. What is the big deal? MPA is a job. Some like it. Some dont.

 

[Grant Fress]

Do not say a word. If you do and he confronts her, then decides to stay with her, they will both hate you.

 

[TheKWguy]

why awkward....just say, "hey cuz, i saw your woman working as a MPA. I wonder how much she's earning. " Regarding others stating it is none of your business, that is lame. She has a job. You cuz has a job. People talk about their occupation everyday. What is the big deal? MPA is a job. Some like it. Some dont.

Agree its not a big deal. I install septics systems and stuff around that...thats a “shitty” and sometimes big shitty deal

 

[rhbro]

Not being a dick here, but I think the service she offers matters.
If a MPA only does BS but no BJ or FS, I don't think it's that big a deal.
Otherwise she would qualify for a sex worker, then too bad for your cousin.

 

[Homerun001]

Not being a dick here, but I think the service she offers matters.
If a MPA only does BS but no BJ or FS, I don't think it's that big a deal.
Otherwise she would qualify for a sex worker, then too bad for your cousin.

Does anyone know how many clients a MPA sees during her shit, per day, per week, and a total per year? HE is 99% a given unless you are an alien, everything else is YMMV, if you are planning on dating an MPA, read the boards on here and PM, some people who have actually experienced it real time.

 

[rhbro]

Does anyone know how many clients a MPA sees during her shit, per day, per week, and a total per year? HE is 99% a given unless you are an alien, everything else is YMMV, if you are planning on dating an MPA, read the boards on here and PM, some people who have actually experienced it real time.

You've seen her twice, so you probably knew what's her menu, and that's my point.

 

[Homerun001]

You've seen her twice, so you probably knew what's her menu, and that's my point.

Bro, if you engage with MPA outside the spa, set your expectations so there is no confusion afterwards.

 

[rhbro]

Bro, if you engage with MPA outside the spa, set your expectations so there is no confusion afterwards.

No luck for me so far, just a bit curious.

 

[felixami]

i was starting to like this one mpa
then she started telling me about how she plans to expand her escort business
and how some guy likes her to sit on the toilet while he goes down on her
and then some guy asked her to take out her IUD

i was good after that