Have you taken a MPA out on a date?

[krayjee]

Short answer... they're just not that into you.

A lot of MPAs have customers they like seeing at the spa ("like" being a relative term when comparing their customers) but have absolutely ZERO interest in seeing outside the spa. In other words, this is a job to them and you are a customer. They don't want a "normal" relationship with you anymore than they want to be asked out for private drinks by their boss.

There's a boundary between personal life and fantasy life and when the girl doesn't want to cross that boundary it's time to move on, or consider whether MP's are really the place you should be trying to pick up women.

My experiences outside the spa have all been initiated by the girls and IMO that's the way it should be.

Very well said. I have dated 5-6 of them outside of the spa in my hobby yrs. It was a completely different experience than dating a civilian girl. All of these girls I have dated have BFs and one has a BF and a husband as well. They did that just for fun and some excitement outside of their normal life. I always have to remind them not to fall in love so nobody gets hurt. They live a very stress full life and all they are looking for is someone they can talk everything to and someone who they are happy to be with for a brief moment. One Korean MPA lasted with me over 2 yrs and she was lots of fun.

 

[krayjee]

I get what Sunny is asking for. He's essentially trying to see if any of the spa girls are open to private calls like indy SPs offer.

Id say just ask the girls youre interested in if they do private calls outside the spa. Depending on your wording it might be coming off as you trying to see them for free off the clock.

If you request because of trying to do things spas limit you in (like a multi-hour date), you might have more success. I'm just speaking for myself though.

If you see an MPA outside like an sp, it is not a date. It is an Out call service. All the MPAs I have dated outside of the spa never talk about money. We just want to hang out together and have fun if the desires were there. Most came over for drinks and meals and movies.

 

[King Arthur]

Again not trying to date a mpa..... would just like the experience of a date and have some fun. Girls working at spa are there for money, as stated earlier this would be a paid date.

There are definitely girls that will do this, just ask around and make sure they know you’ll be compensating them well. I knew one MPA that went on a paid “date” with a regular every week and he came to see her at the spa too.

 

[Justice34]

Check out @sweetbabyjamie book a session. If you like her, ask to book her for a night. She might be down. She's a sweet girl.

 

[hesperion]

The key is to be attractive, don't be unattractive.
Most of these girls want a young good looking guy to party with, they already make great money. More than likely the type of guys these girls date look completely opposite from what you look like

Man, why did you say that? You just burst OP's bubble.

 

[krayjee]

It has nothing to do with young good looking nor the money. Some of these girls work in the spas don't really want a real BF. They live a very secretive stress full life and some times they do need someone who they can talk to after a rough day at work. They will go out with someone who is a good listener, understand their spa lives. They just want to hang out with someone who they are happy to be with. And there are some who have husbands and BFs but just want to have some extra fun.

 

[Leviathan]

Sounds opportunistic “friends for benefits” like a parasitic relationship where each feed on each other for non-monetary or monetary gain.

 

[qinging]

Sounds opportunistic “friends for benefits” like a parasitic relationship where each feed on each other for non-monetary or monetary gain.

A 70 yr old lady-boy who lets guys in the room when he is getting a massage...who sends photos of his penis to other guys...who needs to go to STD clinics for regular check ups...who has embedded himself in the massage spa scene so he can "test drive " these women....all in the name of him being "giving"

 

[Steeper]

It has nothing to do with young good looking nor the money. Some of these girls work in the spas don't really want a real BF. They live a very secretive stress full life and some times they do need someone who they can talk to after a rough day at work. They will go out with someone who is a good listener, understand their spa lives. They just want to hang out with someone who they are happy to be with. And there are some who have husbands and BFs but just want to have some extra fun.

I always have a great time outside ,never any money involved just want to be with me

 

[krayjee]

I always have a great time outside ,never any money involved just want to be with me

Now ..you are making me jealous...very very jealous.

 

[Steeper]

Now ..you are making me jealous...very very jealous.

 

[krayjee]

Hey ..have you ever heard of these quotes ?



It was so funny to see in red board some key board warriors calling out my real name as if I was hiding from them...lol.

 

[qinging]

Hey ..have you ever heard of these quotes ,

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Yes very famous quotes every school child learns..Shakespeare I believe..

 

[qinging]

I get what Sunny is asking for. He's essentially trying to see if any of the spa girls are open to private calls like indy SPs offer.

Id say just ask the girls youre interested in if they do private calls outside the spa. Depending on your wording it might be coming off as you trying to see them for free off the clock.

If you request because of trying to do things spas limit you in (like a multi-hour date), you might have more success. I'm just speaking for myself though.

Why not take Ana Marie out (fee included) for a test run?

 

[Jajatav]

I get what Sunny is asking for. He's essentially trying to see if any of the spa girls are open to private calls like indy SPs offer.

Id say just ask the girls youre interested in if they do private calls outside the spa. Depending on your wording it might be coming off as you trying to see them for free off the clock.

If you request because of trying to do things spas limit you in (like a multi-hour date), you might have more success. I'm just speaking for myself though.

I like the way you articulate this request Ana Maria. I sometimes feel awkward asking the girl and try to make sure that my intentions are business arrangement only.