How to "shoo" girls away?

[Mr. Aks]

"If they ask me to buy them a drink at this (or any) seforum.xxxe, they just failed and will be politely shooed away. "

Found this phrase on one of the websites on bangkok..

Question is... how do you "politely" shoo away a girl you have gestured to come over to you?

 

[babyandme]

How to "shoo" girls away?

not sure really.if you asked her over you must have shown some interest..........
if i found her boring- or there was no connection between us .i would just tell her that i had to leave...or my tilak was coming.....ij

 

[Pompal 09.]

How to "shoo" girls away?

Maybe I'm having a brianfart but why would one gesture a girl ove and then shoo her away. Surely it would be easier to save the time raising one's glass to one's lips and have another drink, prior to gesticulating again at someone one does not plan to shoo away.

 

[Luke]

How to "shoo" girls away?

Hmm... mind explaining the scenario?
Seems rather unclear, from the quoted line to your own 'shoo' away someone you just waved over.

In any case, one way to do it 'politely' would be to 'maybe later'.

 

[phillip b]

How to "shoo" girls away?

l tell em l have tilak, and she will want Thai Boxing if she see's me talk to another girl.

 

[Mary Boo]

How to "shoo" girls away?

or you could try saying you're a 'hasher'.
she'll probably run for the hills. 555!

 

[purplegirl31671]

How to "shoo" girls away?

Just so I understand this in simple terms. The op sees a girl he likes, he gestures for hewr to come over to him. But if immediately or at any seforum.xxxe she asks for a drink he wants to know how to shoo her away politely.

If I have understood this right, then two things immediately come to my mind. Why doesn't he want to buy any girl a drink? and perhaps he has come on holiday to the wrong country!!

Or is it, he just does not like any girl to ask him for a drink, suggestion, offer her one before she gets fed up waiting and has to ask?? and what exactly did she fail??

 

[Fierce]

How to "shoo" girls away?

the term cc come to mind.........555555555...........

 

[leo lion]

How to "shoo" girls away?

Tell her you are broke and ask her can she lend you 1000 Baht until tomorrow.h:

She will take off like sh1t off a shovel.No problemo.:bad:

 

[Colorado]

How to "shoo" girls away?

CC... I hope I'm not but i do like to get a good and proper deal... i.e don't rip me off...

I'm a budget concious traveller as I've just started working in 2007.

ANYWAYS!!!! SORRY!!!!

I think u guys misunderstood me coz i wasn't clear with my post... OK.... :^^:

Here's a scenario...

Sitting in a Gogo bar... I gesture to someone who catches my eye... the usual "where u fom, wat u name?"... sits beside me... after a short while i'll offer her 2 options either ladies drink or tips... u choose.... i read that some ladies don't like lady drinks all that much....

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what i cannot abide by is.... I gesture to someone who catches my eye... she comes over and.... "U buy me dink?"... eh?!h:

What happened to the perfunctory hello? or HI? or.... u get my point... What do you do in this case??
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I read in a post/blog by Bangkokboy that he would "politely" shoo them away and would like to seek ur comments/ views/ advice on how to do this or not to do this or when to do this... etc....

Again... TY guys!! U've all been a great help....

P.S Dun flame me lah!!

 

[ange]

How to "shoo" girls away?

GOOD ONE!!! Gotta try this!! LOL!

 

[Johner]

How to "shoo" girls away?

the funniest instance i had when i was in a bar on soi sansabai...a girl who was just starting her shift, hadnt even put her bag behind the bar came marching over to me "you buy me dink dink"....i just laughed. i think she got the message!

 

[chiliredkitty]

How to "shoo" girls away?

Either that or run to fetch mamasan to send the LBs over.

 

[Friendly Stranger..]

How to "shoo" girls away?

Sounds like typical net "expert" BS. They love to drop crap lines like this with of course no explanation.

What I find best for many a situation in thailand is to make like a thai and bullshit your way out of it - in this case saying you have GF, you're leaving soon, waiting for a friend, oh look I just got an SMS I need to go now, etc etc. You can get away with it, not necessarily because they believe you but because it's the face-saving option.

But really...you call the girl over to you just buy her a damn drink. She shouldn't have to ask.

 

[Khan K]

How to "shoo" girls away?

probably the best advice so far...........

 

[Julie Hedden]

How to "shoo" girls away?

cee wye, it's common practice that when you call a girl over, in a gogo bar, that you have to buy her a drink. and by call, I mean the girls on the seforum.xxxe. You're not obligated to buy the waitresses drinks.

But I always get stiffed. The girl will have friends (normally a waitress) and your girl will ask you to buy them drinks. And sometimes, the mamasan too. In such instances, if you fancy the girl, just BF her and go out partying. It's cheaper.

sort of an unwritten rule.

 

[Mamma of 3]

How to "shoo" girls away?

If they do try the all and sundry drink request, its simple you just say no. You can make a joke and tell them you are farang keeneow but basically they know when you are not going to buy all and sundry but its worth them trying it on, especially for their friends, might be the only money she earns that night, might be her friend did it for her earlier.

But a firm decisive No, not rudely said, passes on the message pretty quickly. But then this might be an expat thing, they know I'm not a holidaymaker, maybe? maybe I've done it often enough to not be embarrassed doing it, who knows!

 

[Miss MooNii]

How to "shoo" girls away?

Buy her a lady drink, make your mind up and then ask her if #69 or # 23 or #45 is a good lady or ask her if she likes whatever perversions you want usually works. :love3:

 

[Kristy]

How to "shoo" girls away?

do you see what postions some of these girls get put in?
you wave her over but am not in position to buy her a drink?
sounds pretty ludicrous to me
i understand if she just walked up to me and asked for a drink but if you wave her over why dont you just chalk up the drink as the price of interviewing her

 

[Pompal 09.]

How to "shoo" girls away?

If i find a girl im clearly not interetsed in comes to sit next to me , i obviously dont wnat her to lose face . so just use body language to get my point across staring away from her, looking bored , facing slightly away etc very suttle and not being to obvious ,

I became quite adept to this as somedays i would get attacked my girls in gogos etc , many were being freindly many were seriosuly not my type and had to go lol