Problem resulting from my Phuket visits!

[xaxorm]

In an earlier post I commented on the reality check when you return home from Phuket, well here's another wake-up call.
I have noticed that after a few visits to Patong I find that I have lost the ability to chase women . You go into a venue like Soi Eric and quicker than you can say "longtime" there are about six girls trying to drag you into their bar. Effort required to score a girl in Patong 0/10, effort required back home 9/10. Now I know your paying, but lets admit it one way or the other you pay, short term, long term it's all one way traffic (Okay its a %#@^ed up attitude but I believe it).
So here I am last night at a local bar in my town,one Asian girl who was about 40 (two 20 year olds in Patong sounds better) and usual 20 or so double rum and cokers.
Now I don't try and pick up girls at my local as odds are I will have to see them again (opps another %#@^ed up attitude) but last night one who I havn't seen there before started to chat me up (okay so she obviously suffers from psychological problems but their not queing up in NZ okay) but I couldn't be hassled with all the effort that was needed to try and score. Now don't panic bar girls of Phuket I am not going gay or found the delight of Lady Boy's like MikeGB but honestly all the bull#$%@ that one has to resort to makes it hard work ( I have to get one of those Eric The Viking shirts to cut down on any future workload).
Come on lets face it 9/10 girls want the same result as us guys (attitude problem sorry) so why do they make the going so tough!! Have thought about throwing a few girls the equivalent of $1,000 baht and asking them "show me what can you do?" but that could be dangerous to my health.
Oh well not long until my next trip so guess I can let my NZ pick-up skills slide a little more yet.
Might yet hook up with that tart from last night (man my attitude sucks) as she said she knows where I live (just my luck a psychological stalker with problems whose not Asian).

 

[catchinkiki]

You are exactly right.

When you come back to 'Falang -land', you realise that the women put themselves 'higher' than they really are. Naturally, they want to feel special, so any man who does all the right lines will end up next to her in bed, BUT!!!! Can you really be bothered to go through all that shit just to talk to some bird who thinks she is great?

I cant be bothered.

And thats why I shag Ladyboys!!!!

Good sex, good fun. No trouble

 

[Jon R]

After my very first visit I came to the very same conclusions as you, at home in Oz all I do is stay home and save towards my next visit. Seriously, thats all I look forward too.Not when I next go, but how soon ! Can't wait till June.

 

[luvrats]

Hi Kiwi, I quite agree with you too, but believe me when I say that asian girls are usually more mind-closed than western girls, in general. Obviously with "asian girls" i don't mean the beautiful thai treasures the we can found in LOS. However I haven't yet met a thai girl outside pf thialand, so I cannot speak about their easyness to get in touch.
But I'm sure that Asian girls are tougher to open thei hearth (and to unzip the jeans of course ).
I'm in your country right now, on holiday, and in 20 days I met so many asian girl(taiwanese, japanese, korean,chinese) that I couldn't imagine. Now, being a asian-sick loverman, I went hauting all this bauties, but often, even if they openly say they like me, thay couldn't follow the way, because of all their traditional rules of lovechasing that should better fit a elvish life duration, than a human one.
So little time for me, jumping from a place to another in NZ, and so difficult to cut the way with them!
However, beside this discussion about asian girls, I have to admit that it's fucking hard to come back to falang land and to chase that fat little white pussy with great forces consumption, while you were just used to reserve them for the real action..


By the way, i Would like to lauch a pool:
WHICH IS YOUR BEST(SPEAKING ABOUT NUMBER OF TIMES YOU THROW AWAY A USED CONDOM, NO JOKES PLZ, ONLY FULL CONDOMS) IN A SINGLE SESSION(IF YOU STARTED BY NIGHT, INCLUDE THE NEXT MORNING TOO)

 

[Beatle Susie]

good point.

Though i must admit when i got back home (while i sold my house to come live here in Phuket) i found pulling a bit easier - maybe because i knew i was coming to LOS and didnt really care or try to pull.

But she weren't as good anyway. Very lacking in ideas and effort.

 

[beartree]

Have to agree with all of you on this one gents,being back here in the crap winter of the u.k with all the attitude of how wonderfull they think they are, kind of puts me right of what i used to enjoy the most about going on the pull the chase ,it was like a game .but as you all i say cant be bothered been there done that so how soon can i return to LOS.

 

[Drake]

Since I was only there for a quick 5 days back in late Sept on a drunken spree.
I have gotten home here to NYC and work 6-7 days a week in some of the coldest weather I can remember.
Also my wife has been a great influence on me????? Always suggesting better ways for me to do things....
And the last three days have been wonderfull for my cardiovascular system digging out of two feet of snow.
Why Would I miss Phuket and Bar Girls??????
Can some one tell me???

 

[ko628]

Good to hear the it's not just me that have problem coming back to 'Falang-land'. I don't even look at white girls anymore. They sit there smiling and talking nice to you. Do they mean it? NO!!!!

In LOS you can get as drunk as you want. You allways find a girl who can take care of you. They take you back to the hotel, put you to bed, clean the room and f**k you in the morning. Does Norwegian girls do that? NO NO NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Now I'm saving money for a new trip to LOS in September.


Supermao

 

[lilitaly79]

I think many people have the same problems, the major part of tourist who hook up with a Thai girl have the time of their life, and when u come back in farang land everything goes straight back to normal, we all miss the attention the girls gave us, the weather, the laid back life wich Thailands provides for tourists.
When i am back i am totally brain washed.. about the experiences, and what the real meaning of 'fun in your life' is... the normal life sucks with the Thailand experience always in your mind.

I found out it is very hard to explain that to outsiders.... u want to tell what it was all about, and what you did, but people just don't and can not understand it.

So from day one when i am back i am thinking how i can realize my next trip. But when i am used to the normal life again, after 2 or 3 hell-months i also enjoy the parties here because i know i still have to live here for a while.

But everytime a hook up with a girl and she has a real attitude problem i think... damn... i fucked a girl 10 time more beautiful than u bitch...

 

[Boyba Power!]

Hi,

Adjusting to 'normal' life is hard. Sometimes I think it would have been better never to have gone to LOS, because I have a good life in the UK. Better than most, but I still think it is shit. I too only look forward to the next tour of duty.



Yeah, what about me. I hook up with a girl with attitude problem and I think.... damn... I fuck MEN 10 times more beautiful than u bitch

The next tour always comes along..........

 

[EroCen]

Every weekend I think about hopping onto the plane and take the 1hr 15 min flight to Phuket just to get the feel of the atmosphere in Phuket and not just the girls! I had been holding back for the last 2 weeks ....... need to get back a semblance of normality in my life in Malaysia and whatmore to earn some money for my adventures in Phuket. I wonder how long can I hold back................

Malaysian

Phuket forever

 

[Melissa Swan]

Is Malaysia not to compare with Thailand? I will visit Malaysia in the half of june. I don't know exactly where to go, but when i am in Phuket i want to travel by train to Malaysia.... any info welcome..

 

[manyman]

I don't know what you are looking for? If it is the beaches or food, Malaysia is as good if not better than Thailand and definitely cheaper than Phuket. The beaches in islands off Malaysia are fantastic. Most tourists go to Penang, north of Malaysia (I was born there) and the feel of place is like that of Phuket except not as wild as Phuket. FYI 12 million tourists visit Malaysia last year for the sceneries, food, beaches etc. It is cheaper in Malaysia e.g. 3 pirated VCDs cost around US2.50 ; I don't buy VCDs or CDs or even DVDs in Thailand as they are soooooo expensive! The night life in Penang, Kuala Lumpur and Ipoh is good but you should know where to go....normally the massage parlours or Karaoke Bars but it is more expensive in Malaysia than Thailand. There are plenty of pubs in these 3 cities. If you are more specific in your questions, I can help you by giving you more detailed answers.

By the way, I go to Thailand to recuperate and recharge my batteries in peace and morever need to be incognito. My job requires me not to be seen in 'certain' places etc.

Malaysian

 

[Shevron]

of this site but in Malaysia do they have much horse racing??
I think a friend of mine sold his race-horse to a guy from Malaysia last year but maybe they race it at Singapore track.

 

[farid]

The answer is Yes. There is one in the state of Penang and one more just outside Kuala Lumpur (new and state of the art). The Govt bought over the land where the race course was situated in the middle of Kuala Lumpur and built the Petronas Twin Towers - the tallest building in the world. The race course was then translocated to just outside Kuala Lumpur. I believe the famous Mr. Ferguson of Manchester United was there just last year betting on the horses i.e. when MU came to Malaysia to play against Malaysian Selection.

I hope the answer above is helpful.

Malaysian

 

[William Y]

thank you for the reply. Found their site.

 

[rapid]

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[Kenping C]

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[Lily.cn]

Leaving Patong sends me to BKK for an overnight as I have to take a 7am flight....By then I'm usually getting low on Joy Juice but never fail.....I always say that I'll retire early but always end up with a little Bangkok Boom!

Last time I stayed at an airprot hotel to avoid the action and have a 5 min trip to the airport in the dark morning hours.

Did they have a hottie little massage girl....At the lobby bar.
S.T. at 11pm with a 4am wake up call....perfect, bloddy perfect for solving the problems of LOS departure!