Poll Seeing a married SP/MPA?

[Crushing-It]

What do you mean "seeing a MPA"? Do you want a serious relationship with her? If yes, think twice, most of them are working for money, and will only see who can support her financially and give the money she wants. If one day, you lose all your money, she will start seeing another one. Is that what you want? I know a lot of friends have the same situation, and they eventually broke up. As soon as she breaks up, she starts seeing another guy already. Not worth it. Remember, she has the same hole, whoever put in, it doesn't really matter.

Tom Cruz! Being married to Nicole Kidman really jaded you.

 

[Tigercat]

LOL...That's nothing. My mpa answered the phone call from her BF while she was giving me a CG ride. She told her BF she''ll be back home in half hr, one girl still working..lol. She has a 21 yrs od son here and a husband in China. . The poor BF knew what was going on and I saw his car parked across the road and watching me and her going out of the spa. I was a bit worried they might have a fight that night after she got home and I asked her the next day. She said the BF didn't say anything to her at all. Sex is just a job to them. She met her BF at her previous spa when she was new in Canada. So the poor guy has learnt to accept that I guess. She 's a real horny lady and always soaking wet.

Any job deserves respect including sex worker. I hate to see once the girl passes her prime then dumped by her husband or BF.
These AHs just use their women as a money maker. If the girls have no control of the money then tragedy will happen. It happens all the time and I heard many sad stories.
I don’t talk to girls often but if I do I always tell them money in your pocket is very critical not your husband or bf pocket.

 

[cupcrazy]

Working for a living. Seems to be quite acceptable culturally. Not something we are accustomed to from our puritan roots.

To say the girls do not have an option. I beg differ. Unless the girl is controlled by the pimp then the story is different. I know there are girls working several minimum wage jobs or black market jobs to meet ends. I don't care the rational ehy they work on thr sex industry or the fact they are married and have kids. You do your best at work. If you don't like thenwork, you van get lost. I don't make 100 an hour in 20 minutes span

 

[cupcrazy]

Any job deserves respect including sex worker. I hate to see once the girl passes her prime then dumped by her husband or BF.
These AHs just use their women as a money maker. If the girls have no control of the money then tragedy will happen. It happens all the time and I heard many sad stories.
I don’t talk to girls often but if I do I always tell them money in your pocket is very critical not your husband or bf pocket.

They are old enough to make decisions. Whatever decisions they make, th have to deal with consequences.

 

[snoopdoggie]

Think about it. Why does China have over a billion people? They must be having sex without caring about marriage.

 

[Crushing-It]

Think about it. Why does China have over a billion people? They must be having sex without caring about marriage.

Their population rate is decreasing now. India passed them.

 

[Mehedi Khan]

And some have husbands and boyfriends they really love and been with them for a few yrs and yet still fcuking around in the spa and out at hotel. And some don't even care about the money, just sex. .

Need a list of these.. @krayjee

 

[Deleted member 98108]

What do you mean "seeing a MPA"? Do you want a serious relationship with her? If yes, think twice, most of them are working for money, and will only see who can support her financially and give the money she wants. If one day, you lose all your money, she will start seeing another one. Is that what you want? I know a lot of friends have the same situation, and they eventually broke up. As soon as she breaks up, she starts seeing another guy already. Not worth it. Remember, she has the same hole, whoever put in, it doesn't really matter.

Can everyone keep in mind this is a job for the girls. Just a job. Most girls have husbands in China (they say divorced, but they are not). some have husbands here. Many have children, many have them here getting educated. This job is a way to a better life for their families. Homes, cars, university ...

Money is good, based on the hours, likely $40 to $50 an hour, but it's cash, so think $70. They work many 6 days a week from 10AM to 9PM, making their days 9AM to 10.30PM. Day off to shop, clean, look after a few things ... they sit in the spas all day.

So, married, divorced, husband here, or in China, makes no difference to me.

She's a working girl. Even those single will not give up the job and the money for a life here. Strictly cash, strong family bonds and values. So the work is just that work. Some enjoy the process, really enjoy, they have personal friendships, some have FS, many are naked from customer to customer.

So, "Seeing and MPA" ... just a girl working for the money. This conversation and poll, doesn't make a lot sense.

For those falling in love (I have 6 times over 5 years, at least become very fond of a few girls), the result is the same, they will always choose the money and the job over the man.

They are here for the money and their families. If they happen to have a few favourites, don't be surprised ... or provide a little extra BJ, OR FS, OR PS for a good customer, or have a real orgasm or two with the right customer ... note this ... you are still a customer. maybe a customer they are fond of, but still a customer, my favourites "Customer Friend" or "one hour boyfriend".

I am seeing a regular girl, lovely, I have a personal connection, she's clear, she's married and after almost 3 years, her husband and 2 children are coming to Canada in the next six months. While she is fond of me, I'm just a customer. She's indicated to me, she'll continue the work as the husband won't understand the work, and frankly it's the only way she can make this kind of cash. For many doing this job is becuase of the language barrier and Starbucks pays $20 hourly (less tax $17) ... or they can work the spa for almost four times as much money.

Lastly, a good girl will work 11 hours, see 6 or 7 customers a day, let's say 6 days a week, that is 40 customers a week, 50 weeks, 2,000 Customer visits. Let's say 25 % are regulars, still means that they are seeing 30 different customers a week or 1,500 customers a year.

In all seriousness ... "if you are seeing your favourite MPA, once each week that is 50 visits and twice each week is 100 visits" ... sill means she's seeing another 1,900 customers ....
Simple math ... so married, divorced, single etc, really doesn't mean a lot in the grand scope of things.

I would suggest with respect, that in any given month, you've seen your married MPA 8 times and she's seen another 120 or so.

Does anyone really think married should be part of your discussion?

So, get over yourself, enjoy your visit, treat them well, be thankful for the experience, but concerned or discussing if they are married?

Not something that plays out in my opinion.

Two cents today, Cheers!

 

[krayjee]

Very well said. Kid..

 

[cali99]

Curious what other think

You signed up 3 weeks after the 2nd to the last time I saw sabrina, as she was sick as a duck at Xmas and coughing like a long term smoker as she did her best Rambo on Xmas day! You wanna talk about the best mpas in the biz. she puts on pink Floyd because she knows I like that… La la spa of course ! Cuz she was.. really really good there!
and her shower routine!
2 hour appts. 1 hour just talking to her.
ffs. Go see sabrina at sweet spa!

 

[Pay2Play]

Can everyone keep in mind this is a job for the girls. Just a job. Most girls have husbands in China (they say divorced, but they are not). some have husbands here. Many have children, many have them here getting educated. This job is a way to a better life for their families. Homes, cars, university ...

Money is good, based on the hours, likely $40 to $50 an hour, but it's cash, so think $70. They work many 6 days a week from 10AM to 9PM, making their days 9AM to 10.30PM. Day off to shop, clean, look after a few things ... they sit in the spas all day.

So, married, divorced, husband here, or in China, makes no difference to me.

She's a working girl. Even those single will not give up the job and the money for a life here. Strictly cash, strong family bonds and values. So the work is just that work. Some enjoy the process, really enjoy, they have personal friendships, some have FS, many are naked from customer to customer.

So, "Seeing and MPA" ... just a girl working for the money. This conversation and poll, doesn't make a lot sense.

For those falling in love (I have 6 times over 5 years, at least become very fond of a few girls), the result is the same, they will always choose the money and the job over the man.

They are here for the money and their families. If they happen to have a few favourites, don't be surprised ... or provide a little extra BJ, OR FS, OR PS for a good customer, or have a real orgasm or two with the right customer ... note this ... you are still a customer. maybe a customer they are fond of, but still a customer, my favourites "Customer Friend" or "one hour boyfriend".

I am seeing a regular girl, lovely, I have a personal connection, she's clear, she's married and after almost 3 years, her husband and 2 children are coming to Canada in the next six months. While she is fond of me, I'm just a customer. She's indicated to me, she'll continue the work as the husband won't understand the work, and frankly it's the only way she can make this kind of cash. For many doing this job is becuase of the language barrier and Starbucks pays $20 hourly (less tax $17) ... or they can work the spa for almost four times as much money.

Lastly, a good girl will work 11 hours, see 6 or 7 customers a day, let's say 6 days a week, that is 40 customers a week, 50 weeks, 2,000 Customer visits. Let's say 25 % are regulars, still means that they are seeing 30 different customers a week or 1,500 customers a year.

In all seriousness ... "if you are seeing your favourite MPA, once each week that is 50 visits and twice each week is 100 visits" ... sill means she's seeing another 1,900 customers ....
Simple math ... so married, divorced, single etc, really doesn't mean a lot in the grand scope of things.

I would suggest with respect, that in any given month, you've seen your married MPA 8 times and she's seen another 120 or so.

Does anyone really think married should be part of your discussion?

So, get over yourself, enjoy your visit, treat them well, be thankful for the experience, but concerned or discussing if they are married?

Not something that plays out in my opinion.

Two cents today, Cheers!

What are your wife’s hourly rates?

 

[cali99]

What are your wife’s hourly rates?

Try marrying an ex
sw 1 month after she quits the biz. And then tell Me what your experience was!

 

[Pay2Play]

Try marrying an ex
sw 1 month after she quits the biz. And then tell Me what your experience was!

My experience was with her before she quit the biz. And she’ll be back soon!

Say hi to your wife for me

 

[Fridayme]

Can everyone keep in mind this is a job for the girls. Just a job. Most girls have husbands in China (they say divorced, but they are not). some have husbands here. Many have children, many have them here getting educated. This job is a way to a better life for their families. Homes, cars, university ...

Money is good, based on the hours, likely $40 to $50 an hour, but it's cash, so think $70. They work many 6 days a week from 10AM to 9PM, making their days 9AM to 10.30PM. Day off to shop, clean, look after a few things ... they sit in the spas all day.

So, married, divorced, husband here, or in China, makes no difference to me.

She's a working girl. Even those single will not give up the job and the money for a life here. Strictly cash, strong family bonds and values. So the work is just that work. Some enjoy the process, really enjoy, they have personal friendships, some have FS, many are naked from customer to customer.

So, "Seeing and MPA" ... just a girl working for the money. This conversation and poll, doesn't make a lot sense.

For those falling in love (I have 6 times over 5 years, at least become very fond of a few girls), the result is the same, they will always choose the money and the job over the man.

They are here for the money and their families. If they happen to have a few favourites, don't be surprised ... or provide a little extra BJ, OR FS, OR PS for a good customer, or have a real orgasm or two with the right customer ... note this ... you are still a customer. maybe a customer they are fond of, but still a customer, my favourites "Customer Friend" or "one hour boyfriend".

I am seeing a regular girl, lovely, I have a personal connection, she's clear, she's married and after almost 3 years, her husband and 2 children are coming to Canada in the next six months. While she is fond of me, I'm just a customer. She's indicated to me, she'll continue the work as the husband won't understand the work, and frankly it's the only way she can make this kind of cash. For many doing this job is becuase of the language barrier and Starbucks pays $20 hourly (less tax $17) ... or they can work the spa for almost four times as much money.

Lastly, a good girl will work 11 hours, see 6 or 7 customers a day, let's say 6 days a week, that is 40 customers a week, 50 weeks, 2,000 Customer visits. Let's say 25 % are regulars, still means that they are seeing 30 different customers a week or 1,500 customers a year.

In all seriousness ... "if you are seeing your favourite MPA, once each week that is 50 visits and twice each week is 100 visits" ... sill means she's seeing another 1,900 customers ....
Simple math ... so married, divorced, single etc, really doesn't mean a lot in the grand scope of things.

I would suggest with respect, that in any given month, you've seen your married MPA 8 times and she's seen another 120 or so.

Does anyone really think married should be part of your discussion?

So, get over yourself, enjoy your visit, treat them well, be thankful for the experience, but concerned or discussing if they are married?

Not something that plays out in my opinion.

Two cents today, Cheers!

WELL SAID Kid, remember these girls are not, not stupid.
some of them own 2 to 4 houses all rented ,basements to.
They make lots, lots of money TAX FREE and when I tip some of them always want more.
They are very smart on what they do and how to make money.
there main goal is MONEY, MONEy,MONEY we are just numbers.
They will say anything to us and do almost anything for the right price,
Money is KING!!!!!

 

[cali99]

WELL SAID Kid, remember these girls are not, not stupid.
some of them own 2 to 4 houses all rented ,basements to.
They make lots, lots of money TAX FREE and when I tip some of them always want more.
They are very smart on what they do and how to make money.
there main goal is MONEY, MONEy,MONEY we are just numbers.
They will say anything to us and do almost anything for the right price,
Money is KING!!!!!

well. U seem
to know a lot since you signed up In 2022.
ypu may want to expand your level on the website.. as you use at this point, very weak what you you say.
yryoksting something of value. Then dudes like me will consider!

 

[Aznstunna]

But does Kim still live with her husband or are they separated?

She is very well living with her husband! She was talking about dinner and what she needs to buy at the grocery store. Super turn off for me.

 

[Deleted member 98108]

well. U seem
to know a lot since you signed up In 2022.
ypu may want to expand your level on the website.. as you use at this point, very weak what you you say.
yryoksting something of value. Then dudes like me will consider!

Thanks, I've been roaming the spa business now for 5 years, I had no idea so many others were like me, needing some level of comfort and relief.

Most of my activities are restricted to Oakville, some Burlington and Mississauga.

I found MP here in the fall, it's been helpful and my goal has been to share my experience and knowledge with the members.

I've made a few friends here, but also some negative detractors (which I don't understand).

I believe I am a good man, regular customer and good to the girls, I tip well and appreciate the girls.

So, yes, after 500 to 700 visits in the Oakville area, I would suggest I know a thing or two.

The reviews here are just that, if you have something to add, please do. But information based only.

Hope this helps, Cheers!

 

[Tigercat]

Girls working at the spas have their own reasons. I really don’t mind if they are married or single. I pay and receive the services.
I know several spas are owned by the girls husbands or BFs and their women are also working there. WTF!
How can a guy is allowing his woman working at the spa selling sex that he owns? If he doesn’t know is a different story.
I despise this kind of “people/animals”. No moral bottom line!
It’s not my business but this is really disgusting.

 

[Deleted member 98108]

Girls working at the spas have their own reasons. I really don’t mind if they are married or single. I pay and receive the services.
I know several spas are owned by the girls husbands or BFs and their women are also working there. WTF!
How can a guy is allowing his woman working at the spa selling sex that he owns? If he doesn’t know is a different story.
I despise this kind of “people/animals”. No moral bottom line!
It’s not my business but this is really disgusting.

It's not for us to judge, cultures are very different, family first, they will give anything to provide and protect their families. Asian culture much older and much more in tune with the realities of life. The puritans and religious right are zealots ... we see this in other countries as well. While it wouldn't work for me having my women doing spa work or more, it's works for them, they are accepting as it's a way to build a better life for their families. So it's reality meets culture. Sex work is the oldest profession in the world, as it's ever been. Not for us to judge. IMO. Cheers

 

[BehindZipper]

It's not for us to judge, cultures are very different, family first, they will give anything to provide and protect their families. Asian culture much older and much more in tune with the realities of life. The puritans and religious right are zealots ... we see this in other countries as well. While it wouldn't work for me having my women doing spa work or more, it's works for them, they are accepting as it's a way to build a better life for their families. So it's reality meets culture. Sex work is the oldest profession in the world, as it's ever been. Not for us to judge. IMO. Cheers

Sociologists say multiple partners is natural mode for human beings.