Seeking Arrangements

[ABJB007]

Hey everyone, just curious to hear any advice/experience with SA. I joined recently and have had some pretty good experiences. I feel like if you're normal and not creepy, have a personality and are willing to pay to hobby, then you can have a lot of good luck.

You'll get some young girls who are just shy, curious, have little experience and aren't that committed. You'll also get a handful of girls that are searching for the older guys who are just willing to have their company at dinner and some that just don't expect anything in return at all. It's weird that those people are out there lol. Then, you'll also get girls who are interested mainly in long-distance picture/video arrangements.

So yeah, you have to filter through a bit of that but there are definitely pretty girls who are interested in discreet play time. Just interested in hearing your guys' opinion.

 

[mvalencia1]

Where have you had the best luck? My experience hasn't been too good with getting take out. If they were willing to give me their number, any possibility of fun outside the MP was quickly squashed once numbers were discussed. I think, from their perspective, if their going to travel to see just one person, it has to be worth their while. One chick even threw out $1000! Another asked for $100 for a cab before I even saw her outside. Makes me question if I even want these chicks to know where I live!

 

[The Donger]

I have had very good results on SA, yes you have to filter out the money grubbers and find the girl who is willing to give you a good experience for reasonable money. Asking for $1000 right off sounds like an SP, SP's by nature of their business think in terms of an hourly rate and are looking for a quick score on SA. There are many SP's who use SA, look for the university student who wants one guy in exchange for an allowance. This is not the place for anyone who earns less than 6 figures it is for the wealthy or well off. You must also be well spoken and reasonably good looking. If you are looking for a young, clean women to spend time with, dinner, travel and great sex this is the place but quality costs money. You must do your shopping and pick wisely.

 

[snoopdoggie]

This may be a dumb question, but what is SA?

 

[The Donger]

Seekingarrangement.com

 

[snoopdoggie]

Seekingarrangement.com

Oh I see. I assume it's an escort agency. I'll check it out. Thanks.

 

[The Donger]

No, Its a sugar baby dating site

 

[snoopdoggie]

No, Its a sugar baby dating site

Oh ok. Yeah it seems you need a salary well into the six figures for something like that.

 

[Roman]

Oh ok. Yeah it seems you need a salary well into the six figures for something like that.

I think you have to have that type of income to hobby a lot.

 

[TheKWguy]

There's something wrong about how they market themselves. I rather just go to a MP and fuck them there. Look at numbers on the site they give too, i wonder whose stupid enough to say where they go to school.

And this is why i'm fustrated....U of waterloo NOT EVEN on the listing, Laurier...90....

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/sugar-baby-university/canada

 

[Jajatav]

Has anyone tried Secret Benefits? I registered but haven't bought any credits yet.

 

[The Donger]

Save your money, that site is a waste of time

 

[Jajatav]

I will take your advice, thanks.

 

[Mr.YMMV]

I'd rather be spending $1,000 for a 3 girl action than a one night stand for some mediocre uni student. I am sure half of these girls on that site could barely fuck PSE. Guarantee it's delicious these uni students but I'm not in the mood to teach these girls how to deep throat. Just my experience back then with some younger girls. All hype no content.

 

[ABJB007]

This is not the place for anyone who earns less than 6 figures it is for the wealthy or well off. You must also be well spoken and reasonably good looking. If you are looking for a young, clean women to spend time with, dinner, travel and great sex this is the place but quality costs money. You must do your shopping and pick wisely.

Yeah I guess I was assuming that most people who hobby have a decent amount of expendable income. My monthly arrangement with a girl is running to $1000 USD and I mean that's kind of what I budgeted for. I do agree that if you have some attractive qualities or looks, you have higher potential. The chase is a little fun too to be honest.

There's also the benefit of finding a pretty girl where you can see their face and you get to form a better connection with them (although you can still connect with MP's outside of the room). And yes maybe the girls don't always have the best experience but they it's sometimes a little more fun knowing they have fewer partners no?

Anyway, thanks for the input.

 

[Hangdai]

it's sometimes a little more fun knowing they have fewer partners no?.

All the ladies I see tell me I’m the only one.

But honestly, young, inexperienced girls do not sound fun to me, might look nice on my arm in the mall or at the restaurant.

 

[Jajatav]

All the ladies I see tell me I’m the only one.

But honestly, young, inexperienced girls do not sound fun to me, might look nice on my arm in the mall or at the restaurant.

Ahh yes 'The Only One' phrase. That one never gets old. lol

 

[ABJB007]

But honestly, young, inexperienced girls do not sound fun to me

I would assume this, yes, from the person in love with the 50 year old lol. (Not criticizing lol, to each their own)

 

[TheKWguy]

I would assume this, yes, from the person in love with the 50 year old lol. (Not criticizing lol, to each their own)

... ouch that's a low blow. You owe him a room fee session now too.

 

[imyourpuppet]

I will say this about SA. As the SD you should be vigilant in screening too. Especially if you are inviting the lady to your home.