sex and massage

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Well I believe that both are important I had a client that was not conected to this web site, who booked for an hours massage and was quoted a price for this

I have a massage table and I am trained in this area so this is what he wanted and then

He changed his mind and decided that he wanted more and I stated to him that I had prepared my self for a massage only and that he was quoted for this.

He became angy and left because I would not change my mind and I was thinking that did I do the right thing

what do you all think.

jaz.

 

[Jane Doe]

men are from mars.......

The problem as I would see it jazz, is that men do not as rule understand the mental component to sex for a women, especially a "working" one.
As you are well aware men are ready for sex in their sleep! Your dilemma demonstrates a simple lack of empathy on his part. Men are also very adept at percieving rejection, imagined or not. When coupled with some men's inability to display more than 2 emotions (happy and angry), when conReviewonted with a percieved rejection they become angry as they have no other way of coping with emotion (sounds like you made him "emotional" with a too good a massage, lol).
Another clear example of men and women being Reviewom different worlds.

 

[EzLover23]

Hi Jazz

If I had booked a massage with you as he did, and then for whatever reason changed my mind during the massage, I could imagine myself wanting an upgrade, asking for it, and being prepared to obviously pay for the difference. I am at a loss and curious as to why this would be a problem for you...pray tell.

 

[SPAY YOUR MUTT!]

wtf?

Speaking for myself, if I had made a booking for a theraputic massage service (which I'll have to talk to you about, as my neck and back are ratshit at the moment) and then wanted an "upgrade" at the last minute, I would politely enquire whether it was possable to upgrade, which I would expect the lady to politely decline if this was not doable, but I definately would not spit the dummy and storm out, I'd stay for the massage service at the original price.

 

[Pompal 09.]

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[Debra Jonasz]

Hi Jazz

I am at a loss and curious as to why this would be a problem for you...pray tell.

I would think that the "problem" may get back to the preparation part. We all know the first thing we as the mp.net have to do when visiting a lady is prepare in the bathroom. I imagine the ladies have to do so before we even arrive.

I would imagine the preparation for a massage booking would not be as involved as one for a full service booking. I can understand that a lady might not have time to change "modes" if she has another booking straight mpter.

I suppose the best thing to do as a mp.net is state up Reviewont what you want... even if that is asking "can we have a massage and perhaps full service later if I am up to it?" That way I feel confident the lady would say yes and be ready for both.

 

[lex]

jazmine sex ok massage ok

I was supprised as I quoted him 120 dollars for an hour of massage that he wanted

The problem was that I dragged my table up stairs and to hell and back I organized the best music and got dressed up in my sunday best .

Looking and feeling sensual and having the hot towels and foot bath ready did not worry me but.

He did not want to pay extra for the extra service

I had no problem upgrading but I did go to a lot of bother to make it special.

I am aReviewaid that his expectations were to great.

I was not asking much more for a full service so if he so thought it was such an excellent massage that an extra bit of money would be necessary.

He stated he did not have any and I stated that the next time would be a different experience than what he was having at present.

Maybe I should have felt sorry for him but I know that he earns enough money not to try it on

I know men are Reviewom mars and women Reviewom venus but a root is a root and a massage is just that when you ask for only massage and not relief and then that is what is provided to you then if you wish to fufill your sexual needs then you call it an all inclusive deal that is how I saw it

Maybe I am a little hard but business is business even if you are well off or on a budget.

Jaz

 

[andy dufresne]

Jazmine

Hey Babe,

All I can say Reviewom a ladies view is I understand where you are coming Reviewom, and I for one would have done the same !
You are very much correct (in my opinion) that A massage is just that, and another service is just that, and if I understand correctly he could have upgraded but obviously that would have involved a higher fee ?

If this is so the case, (which I think it is) then I agree 100% behind your decision totally although disappointed that he found it nesasary to leave His loss though hun, as I know personally and have heard nothing but excellent comments about you and the time that you spend with people 8)

Some really interesting comments Reviewom everyone as well, great to see