What constitutes gay?

[Heywood Jablowmi]

Dude he said he is attracted to men!!! And he had sex with another guy. So sorry BT but the man is Gay. Good for him. Hey he brought it up and asked the question.

 

[Mushu]

Redlight FYI

The word gay is now standard in its use to refer to people whose orientation is to the same sex, in large part because it is the term that most gay people prefer in referring to themselves. Gay is distinguished from homosexual primarily by the emphasis it places on the cultural and social aspects of homosexuality as opposed to sexual practice.

 

[cool person]

Tgirl

You certainly have the right to identify yourself as you wish. Other members have an equal right to express their opinion for discussion purposes, provided it is kept with in the boundaries of good taste. At the moment this seems to be a clean discussion.

We are keeping an eye on this thread as it progresses.

 

[gemini6187]

Me thinks Judge said it best.

 

[liucai86090]

Why it is being discussed to no end on another sit. This is a black and white choice he is gay period.

 

[Alex B]

This thread is loaded with mine fields, and can explode into a pop-corn eating fest.

I am going to put my feet up, legs squeezed tightly together as to avoid rear-entry and watch in anticipation of the pending nuclear storm!

I will keep my opinions to myself for now, as a safety measure.:

 

[Laptop Jesus 2.0]

What do you mean who counts as what?. Do not understand your question.

 

[PUMPKIN head]

Ditto can anyone explain it properly?

 

[fatmas]

I'm just wondering, based on the experiences of the two guys in my post, who counts as gay/straight, and why.

Just thought a few hypotheticals might help us answer the question of "what constitutes gay?"

 

[Gregg]

Honcho what age did you feel you were attracted to men?. I never had those feelings but will not call you gay you were just curious.

 

[2290]

My question is, if you are a straight guy, why are you so interested in other guys having an "engorged hard cock explode in [their] mouth", in whether "looking or handling a hard cock" gives those guys a boner or not, and "what" it makes them?

Why do you care? You do seem to enjoy talking about hard cock.

 

[ROCKER_CHICK]

Actually, if you re-read what he actually wrote, you will see that he had, in the past, an attraction towards men, had one homosexual experience, and now finds himself only attracted to women.

Let me underline it for you, just so you may properly understand: He is now only attracted to women.

Now also, assuming he, or any person, is attracted to his own sex as well as the opposite sex, that will make him at least Bisexual.

Funny how guys like you have no problem picturing girls being bi, but if a man likes both, he's labeled gay.

 

[love your creator]

Thank you DB

 

[Desi Chef]

I will try and answer your question Nikki. The dude that decides to suck a cock after doing 100 is noww Bisexual. The dude that did the 100 men and now wants to taste a pussy has also in my opinion crossed over from homosexual to bisexual. What is the big deal?
You are welcome to classify yourself as whatever you like but we are not forced to agree with it are we? I mean you are not and cannot control what is in peoples mind, so why bother. Relax and enjoy the gentlemen that are into you and forget about the boys that strictly like pussy.

 

[bandittt x3]

All men are dicks Gen

 

[dh0pe.]

Whoa guys, I'm not speaking for anyone, and I'm trying to leave other arguments where they are. My conversation with the mods involved me asking for a few clarifications before I posted on the board, that's all.

I'm not telling anybody what to think, I asked a question related to this thread. I haven't even stated my own opinion yet, and I'm definitely not trying to cause any more problems - they certainly don't do me any good. Trust me, I'm trying my best to avoid them, which is why I'm here, instead of over there.

So, we have a few answers to the first question. Let's try another one:

A: A guy (who has never had any sexual contact before) sucks one cock, then decides to go out and lick 100 pussies.
B: A guy (who has never had any sexual contact before) licks one pussy, then decides to go out and suck 100 cocks.

Who's gay/straight/bisexual, and why?

 

[mallos731]

Good point super woman, sharp mind sexy body nice combo.

 

[joe.attaboy]

LOL. You and BT are hilarious. OkoK. Honcho used to be Gay. Now he has turned the magic switch off and is straight. I didn't think it worked that way. Dream and BT123. This is Toronto in the new Century. We have a parade and everything. It is really OK to be a Gay man. Honcho doesn't need fine definitions. He acted out his homosexual impulses and admits he has been attracted to men. Let him out of the closet don't make qualifications for the man. He was honest enough to convey an experience. Don't dimish it for the dude like it was a temporary thing like a head cold.

 

[Italian girl]

Redlight I never said I was gay I asked if having one encounter with the same sex made me one. Homo phobics are quick to pull the trigger. I live a normal life dated and fucked many women I am 29 years old and do not have those urges anymore. Get your facts straight before you think for me.

 

[Kaye B]

Alright Nikki, WTF I'll answer your question again.

The fact that a dick was sampled by the first man would make him bicurious. If after licking 100 pussies, he now in his owwn mind finds sucking cock revolting, at this point he is now straight. As for the gentleman that has now resided to sucking cock after cock, his is gay. See in my mind it is as clear as day and that is my right!

Let me ask you a question please. Would you ever entertain a client and not disclose the fact the you have a good sized bastone down below, that I bet would put some men to shame? Why or why not?

I will add Nikki I am not trying to insult you so please accept my question in the nature that it is intended. It is intended for debate only. I really don't care what anyone enjoys doing to sexually gratify themselves.